September 30th, 2012 09:46 EST
Don't Let The Media Dictate Your Relationships
Many celebrities who get into a relationship do not get any privacy from the media and their fans. Here are a few suggestions on how not to let the media dictate the course of your relationship.
1. Get into a relationship for the right reasons.
Ask yourself why are you in your current relationship. Many celebrities have different motives in getting into a relationship with someone. Regardless of the reasons, it is best to be honest with yourself and with the other person. If you are not sincere, then you will increase the chances of having your relationship in the spot light.
2. Watch What You Say.
Be careful on what you say when you are in public. The less you say the better. The media and your fans will be eager to jump on anything that raises any question marks. Play it safe and don`t say anything that raises questions.
3. Don`t Give In To Peer Pressure
Focus on what is best for you and your partner instead of focusing on what your fans want. Celebrities have to live their own life and make their own decisions on what is best for their relationships. Learn how to not give into peer pressure. Learn to live your own life instead of trying to please everyone.
4. Learn from Your Experiences
Many celebrities make the same mistakes in their various relationships. Make it a rule that for every relationship that ends, find out what went wrong. Learn from your mistakes before getting into another relationship. This will save you a lot of heartache and money.
5. Don`t Runaway From Your Problems
Every relationship has its problems. Don`t be surprised when problems arise in your relationship. Effective communication throughout your relationship is very important and will help you in the long run. If you make a mistake, remember honesty is the best policy. Hiding your problems will only make it worse.
There are a countless number of people who made the mistake of letting the media interfere in their relationships. If you are not sure of what to do, then talk to a professional who can give you some advice. As mentioned before, live your own life.
Stan Popovich is the author of A Layman`s Guide to Managing Fear Using Psychology, Christianity and Non Resistant Methods ".For additional information go to: www.managingfear.com