Did you know that in order to have a true orgasm with a dildo, it is important to use it correctly?
Blindly sliding a dildo in and out of the vagina doesn’t actually feel good at all.
In this article, I’m going to show you how a woman can really develop an orgasm with a dildo.
The real orgasms you can feel with a dildo are many times deeper and more exciting than the orgasms you can feel with the clitoris. I want you to experience it too.
Please work together to master how to use it properly and feel the real orgasm with a dildo.
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What is a dildo?
Do you know what a dildo is in the first place?
Simply put, it’s a replica of the male penis.
It is primarily designed to be used by women to masturbate, and is useful for stimulating the portio(cervix, c-spot) and G-spot.
It can also be used for anal use, so men can insert it into the anus.
Dildos made of silicon are the most popular, but there are also a variety of dildos made of glass and metal, and the feeling of stimulation varies depending on the material.
Dildos usually have a suction cup at the base and can be glued to the wall or floor.
The point is that you can enjoy masturbation in a hands-free position such as cowgirl or back.
You don’t need to worry about your surroundings because it doesn’t use a power supply, so it doesn’t make any noise and you can masturbate quietly.
Realistic dildos are those that look as close to a real penis as possible, with even the veins and the glans being replicated, and non-realistic dildos are those that look like a simple stick or do not look like a penis at first glance.
Non-realistic dildos can be left at home so that family members and roommates won’t know they are sex toys, and some sexually seasoned people use them to glue them to the wall to hang their clothes.
The appeal of dildos
One of my bar regulars is telling me how she bought herself a new dildo
Now she is telling me how great her orgasm was
Ma’am I’m not your therapist do you want a beer or not
— motallon (@motallon) November 20, 2020
The appeal of dildos is that they can be used for portio development.
The portio is located around the uterus inside a woman’s vagina and can be found by inserting a finger from the entrance of the vagina to the deepest part of the vagina.
This portio is also the passage of the baby during birth and is shaped like a donut.
Under normal circumstances, it is tightly closed and will not open.
The portio is not a sexual area that is pleasurable from the start, but can be transformed into a very pleasurable sexual area if properly developed.
The sex toy that is best suited to develop such a portio is a dildo.
Realistic dildos, which are made to be attached to a real penis, can be used for practicing fellatio.
There are some ways that women can perform fellatio as a form of foreplay for their partners, but they don’t have the opportunity to practice it.
That’s where dildos come in.
You can practice in secret when you’re not seeing your partner and you’ll be surprised at how much your technique improves.
Also, because the dildo is not an electric powered sex toy, it can last for a very long time, depending on how you use it.
So it’s a pretty cost-effective sex toy. Good usability and good cost performance are the attractions of the dildo.
What is the true orgasm you feel with a dildo?
The real orgasm you feel with a dildo is a portio orgasm.
The orgasm felt in the portio is said to be the strongest of all the orgasms a woman can feel and is much more intense than the orgasms felt in the clitoris or G-spot.
However, it is said that only about 10% of women can feel an orgasm in the portio, which makes it very difficult to develop.
If you want to feel a portio orgasm, especially if you want to feel a portio orgasm during sex, you need to develop the portio in advance by masturbating. (You can also develop it during sex, but it is very difficult to do so.)
Portio development is also possible
Portio development requires continuous stimulation of the portio, but it is difficult to keep stimulating the portio at the back of the vagina with your fingers.
It’s also difficult to keep inserting your fingers to reach the portio, and even if you do stimulate it with your partner’s penis, it can be deflated by your partner’s physical condition and mood.
In particular, you need to stimulate the portio continuously for more than 20 minutes to have an orgasm with the portio, so it’s hard to keep stimulating the portio for more than 20 minutes with an erection and to maintain it.
This is where the dildo comes in. Because the dildo is a replica of the penis, it won’t get tired if you keep inserting it for a long time without it shrinking or getting tired.
What you should prepare for when you use a dildo
When using a dildo, it is a good idea to prepare the following items as well.
- Condoms
- lotion
- Large bath towel or pet sheet
- Maintenance goods
Condoms are used on dildos. You don’t have to have one, but it’s more hygienic to use a condom.
I use it with lotion.
Lotion is essential, so be sure to prepare it.
It is important to choose a lotion that is clearly labeled “for women”.
The most popular material for lotions is polymer called sodium polyacrylate.
It is a relatively familiar chemical material used in sanitary napkins and diapers, but this polymer uses its strong water-absorbing properties to retain water and lubricate the lotion.
Therefore, when used in a woman’s vagina, it can absorb water from the vagina and cause it to dry out further.
Also, sodium polyacrylate stuck in the vagina can be difficult to wash out and can cause irritation.
It is always recommended that you choose a lotion for women.
A large bath towel or pet sheet is for placing under your buttocks during masturbation.
Since you will be using lotion while masturbating, your bottom will be wetter than you think.
For this reason, it’s a good idea to put a bath towel or a pet sheet underneath so that you don’t get the room dirty.
Maintenance products are designed to clean the dildo after you use it.
There are special sex toy cleaners available on the market, but these are not a must as they can be substituted with detergent and other products.
However, special cleaners are recommended, especially if you want to use the dildo for a long time, as they will not damage the dildo itself.
It’s a good idea to have it with you to keep your dildos clean and in use.
The proper way to use a dildo
So, next, let’s check out how to use a dildo properly.
There is no such thing as a good feeling if you just insert it as it is, so it is important to use it in order to ensure that you feel an orgasm.
In this article, we will focus on portho orgasms that are suitable for development by dildos.
If you haven’t used a dildo yet, or if you’re interested in feeling a portio-orgasm, this is a good place to start.
Preparation
The first thing you should do is start preparing yourself for using the dildo.
It is a good idea to ensure that you have a safe masturbation situation and warm up in a bath or other place to allow your body to fully relax.
It is easier to have an orgasm when your body is well warmed up.
Burning aromas in the room is a great way to get the benefits of aromas as well.
Finally, put a bath towel under your buttocks and you’re ready to go.
And if you’re feeling up to this point, you’re good to go, but it’s a good idea to find a masturbation wanker, whether it’s a fantasy, a pornographic video, a novel, or anything else.
1. Increase your vaginal sensitivity sufficiently with clitoral stimulation and other techniques
In order to feel an orgasm with a dildo, you must first ensure that your body and vagina are sufficiently sensitive.
To do this, you should feel your orgasm with clitoral stimulation before inserting the dildo. Women, unlike men, do not have a refractory period (the so-called wise man time).
Therefore, once you have an orgasm, you can have multiple orgasms from there.
Many people are worried that they won’t be able to feel an orgasm in the vagina once they’ve had an orgasm.
But don’t worry. But there is no need to worry.
It is better to have enough clitoral orgasms to increase the sensitivity of the vagina.
2. Apply plenty of lotion to the dildo and insert it
Once the sensitivity in your vagina has been sufficiently increased, it’s time to insert the dildo.
Apply plenty of lotion to the dildo and insert it slowly. If you feel pain, please increase the sensitivity again and try to insert it.
After the dildo is inserted into the vagina, do not move it immediately, but wait until it is adjusted.
The vagina is a flexible organ to some extent, but it does not change into a dildo shape suddenly after insertion.
If you move the dildo suddenly after insertion, it may lead to an unexpected injury.
3. When the vagina becomes comfortable with the dildo, move it slowly
Once the dildo is inserted and becomes comfortable in the vagina, try to move it slowly.
Try inserting it deep into the vagina so that the dildo hits the portio.
When you find that the dildo hits the back of your vagina, try to stroke up and down.
The speed of the stroke does not equal the orgasm; in fact, it is easier to feel a portio orgasm if you stimulate it slowly.
Try to move your body as if you were applying gentle pressure.
Once you get used to the strokes, move the dildo around as you like.
Move it in a circular motion, quiver in small increments while it’s on the portio, or try gluing it to the floor to enjoy the cowgirl position.
4. Concentrate on stimulating the areas that feel good
As you move the dildo inside your vagina, you will find a place where you think, “Does this feel good?
If you find a place that feels good, try to stimulate it.
When you find one, concentrate on the area that feels good.
One thing to keep in mind is that even if you think the portio might feel good, you can’t just move it.
But there are few cases that you can feel an orgasm right away.
It’s important not to be in a hurry to have an orgasm even if you can’t have an orgasm as soon as you want.
Challenge yourself to study which places you find comfortable.
Basically, as you repeat this process, you’ll be able to use the dildo to feel the portio orgasm.
When using dildos
Next, here are some things to keep in mind when using dildos.
When you use a dildo, you want to be careful about the following three things.
- Don’t use only large ones.
- Keep your dildos clean.
- Store individually and avoid high temperatures and humidity.
Let’s go over each of these in detail.
Sex toys can injure you or even trigger an infection if you use them wrongly.
It is important to manage them properly and use them correctly, without taking them for granted that they are just a simple dildo.
Don’t use dildos that are too big
Many people use dildos and try larger sizes as they become less and less comfortable with them.
However, be careful not to use only large ones.
If you only use a dildo that is too large, you may not be satisfied with your partner’s penis.
Also, dildos can escalate to bigger and more extreme dildos, so it’s best to use large dildos as a spice to spice up your usual masturbation routine.
Keep dildos clean
Be sure to clean and sanitize the dildo after use to keep it clean.
Because dildos are inserted into the vagina, it is easy for germs to grow from love juices and mucous membranes that are stuck to the dildo after use.
If you reuse a germ-infested dildo, it can cause an infection.
You may be wondering, “How can I get an infection if I’m the only one who uses the dildo?”
You may be wondering, but this is possible.
One of the most common infections that can be caused by the dildos you use is candida.
Candida is an indigenous fungus (a fungus that is already inside your body) that is not normally harmful, but can be triggered by a lowered body immune system or an overabundance of bacteria.
Using a dirty sex toy can cause you to develop this candida.
It is always recommended to clean and store used dildos in a well-dried environment.
Store individually, avoiding high temperatures and humidity
Store dildos individually, away from high temperatures and humidity. Many dildos are made of oil-based materials called silicone or elastomers, but these materials are very sensitive to heat.
Even the amount of sunlight that comes into your home can melt the dildo after prolonged exposure to it.
For the same reason, avoid high temperatures and store them in a well-ventilated area.
This is why you must store them alone, but if you store multiple dildos at once, they can each stick together.
Therefore, if you want to store several dildos together, you should wrap them one by one with a non-woven cloth before you store them.
Summary
In this article, we have focused on the proper use and precautions for dildos.
The dildo is an excellent sex toy that doesn’t make a loud noise when used, nor is it particularly fragile.
I encourage you to learn how to use them properly and feel the portio-orgasm.
As is often the case, portio-orgasms take a very long time to develop. If you take it easy and develop it in a relaxed manner, you won’t feel a strange rush.
If you’re interested in the same vaginal development, see our article on G-spot development as well if you’re interested in G-spot development.
