Where is the clitoris? Tips on finding and three easy steps to External orgasm

For women

The clitoris is one of the most typical female sexual zones.

However, surprisingly many people do not find it well.

If you can master the orgasm felt in the clitoris, you can enjoy sex and the next step, the Internal Orgasm, will be easier.

I’d like to focus on the clitoral orgasm, and I’ll show you how to find it easily and the 3 steps to have an external orgasm.

  • I have never had an external orgasm before and I don’t know what it feels like.
  • I want to learn the sensation of coming on the clitoris.
  • I would like to know where the female clitoris is located (for men).

If you have any of these concerns, please stay with us until the end.

What is the clitoris?

The clitoris is a small protrusion about 5 to 7 mm in size at the entrance of the woman’s vagina.

It is a very sensitive organ with many nerves concentrated in it. Like the glans of the male penis, it is an organ that receives sexual stimulation and orgasm, but in the case of the clitoris, it is only there to feel pleasure.

It does not have a urinary or reproductive role like the penis.

Men do not have an organ that is only there to feel pleasure like the clitoris, so it is truly a mysterious organ that only women have.

The clitoris is the human female’s most sensitive erogenous zone and generally the primary anatomical source of human female sexual pleasure.[2] In humans and other mammals, it develops from an outgrowth in the embryo called the genital tubercle. Initially undifferentiated, the tubercle develops into either a penis or a clitoris during the development of the reproductive system depending on exposure to androgens (which are primarily male hormones). The clitoris is a complex structure, and its size and sensitivity can vary. The glans (head) of the human clitoris is roughly the size and shape of a pea, and is estimated to have about 8,000 sensory nerve endings.[3]


It is usually a small protrusion, about 5 to 7 mm in size, but it varies from person to person.

It can be as large as an infant’s penis in larger people. The size of the clitoris can be a complex, but you don’t have to worry about it, as many men welcome a larger clitoris in their opinion.

It is also believed that the actual visible part is only a small part of the clitoris, which is about 10 cm in total.

Orgasm felt on the clitoris

The clitoris is an organ with many nerves, so it can be sensitive to the slightest stimulation.

It is also possible to reach orgasm with continuous stimulation.

The orgasm felt in the clitoris is said to be similar to that of a male ejaculation.

The sensation is like an electric current running through the lower body, and you will feel refreshed after feeling a clitoral orgasm.

The difference between Internal orgasm and External orgasm

In addition to the clitoris, the G-spot and Portio are the other sex zones (hereinafter referred to as the internal orgasm), but they are different from the clitoral orgasm, which have a strong lingering effect and are rather vague.

It is a pleasurable sensation, but the clitoral orgasm is a crisp, awakening sensation.

By the way, if you want to indicate the degree of difficulty of External orgasm and Internal orgasm, the order of difficulty increases from clitoral orgasm to G-spot orgasm to Portio orgasm. In particular, the G-spot and Portio orgasms require training until the orgasm is felt (this training is called development).

However, the orgasms felt by the clitoris do not require training in most cases.

I mentioned earlier that the clitoris has many nerves concentrated in it, but the clitoris does not need to be specifically developed to feel orgasms to some extent if you give it sexual stimulation.

There are many people who started to masturbate as a child because they noticed that they felt pleasure from touching the clitoris somehow.

The benefits of doing external orgasm

There are three benefits in understanding your body as a woman and experiencing external orgasm for women who have never experienced external orgasm which are:

  • Internal orgasms are easier to have because of the increased sensitivity of the body.
  • Sex becomes even more fun.
  • You can sleep better.

When you are able to feel clitoral orgasm, your body becomes more sensitive to stimulation because your body is more sensitive to it.

Therefore, after feeling a clitoral orgasm, it is easier to have an internal orgasm; sometimes, when you want to develop an internal orgasm, you intentionally have to feel the clitoral orgasm before developing it.

Also, even though it is the least difficult orgasm for a woman to feel, if you can feel a clitoral orgasm, sex will be more enjoyable than it is now.

It’s hard to actively want to have sex without being able to feel orgasms.

If you are able to feel clitoral orgasm, your male partner will be happy to know that you can feel orgasms during sex.

In addition, if you feel clitoral orgasms from masturbation or sex before going to bed, you will be able to sleep better.

Feeling orgasms can be tiring in moderation.

When you feel moderate fatigue, you can fall asleep comfortably.

The Easy Way to Find the Clitoris

So let’s continue, here’s how to find the clitoris easily!

If you haven’t yet found your clitoris on your own, you should try to find it.

It’s very important to know every detail about your body.

When you find the clitoris yourself, it is best to keep a mirror in your hand or in front of a viewing mirror.

You don’t have to have a mirror, but it’s a good idea to know what it looks like beforehand, since it will be seen by your male partner.

First, sit down with your legs apart in front of the mirror and explore the vaginal area with your fingers.

The area around the vagina is covered with flaky skin, and if you scratch through it with your fingers, you should find a small protrusion above the opening of the vagina.

If you find this protrusion, touch it gently with your finger.

Because the clitoris is a very sensitive organ, it is prone to feeling irritation when you touch it.

If you feel a slightly pleasant or itchy sensation, that protuberance is the clitoris.

If you have trouble finding the clitoris…

Because the clitoris is a very sensitive organ, it may be covered by a skin, usually called the foreskin.

Therefore, if you can’t easily find the clitoris, you will need to find the foreskin and peel it off.

You will easily recognize the foreskin because it does not have pubic hair.

When you touch it, you will feel a stronger stimulation than in other parts of the body, and you will also feel a kind of itchy sensation. Is this it?

If you think it is, try to gently peel the skin off. You will see the clitoris.

Easy!3 steps to external orgasm

Now that you’ve found the clitoris, here are the three steps to an easy External orgasm!

If you’ve never had a clitoral orgasm before, you can easily feel a clitoral orgasm by trying this method.

This is a great opportunity to try it.

Enhance your mood sufficiently

In order to feel a clitoral orgasm, you must first make yourself feel sufficiently aroused.

It is difficult to feel pleasure from touching the clitoris in the absence of sexual arousal.

Therefore, it is important to get enough sexual exposure, whether it be pornographic videos, fantasies of favorite situations, cartoons, novels, or anything else that will boost your mood.

If your family or roommates are around at this time, you may not feel safe masturbating, so it is best to prepare in advance and cover yourself with a blanket so that you do not have to worry if they see you.

Stimulating the clitoris

Once you are sufficiently aroused by the sexual stimulation, it is time to stimulate the clitoris.

When touching the clitoris, it is recommended to slowly stimulate the clitoris from the top of the foreskin at first.

The clitoris is a very sensitive and painful organ, so be sure to stimulate it gently.

Try to stimulate it by tapping it gently with your finger with a thump, or by stimulating it with a crunchy toe.

Continue to stimulate where it feels good

As you stimulate the clitoris, you should find a place where the touch and intensity of the clitoral stimulation feels good to you.

Then you should concentrate on stimulating the places that feel good.

It is important to keep stimulating at a constant intensity and speed when you want to feel a clitoral orgasm.

As you stimulate the area that feels good, you will feel a sensation of gradual ascent.

Then continue to stimulate with more of the same movements.

If you feel discomfort at this time and stop the stimulation, you will not be able to have an external orgasm, so be aware that you should continue.

After stimulating again for a while, you may feel a pleasurable sensation like an electric current running through your lower body.

Remembering this sensation will make it easier to masturbate during sex and again.

If you can’t get external orgasm easily…

Sometimes you may find it difficult to externally orgasm even when you are stimulating the clitoris.

In those cases, try using a vibrator.

A vibrator is a palm-sized sex toy with a built-in motor that can stimulate the genitals with the vibrations of the rotating motor.

If you use your fingers, you may not be able to feel an orgasm because of the lack of stimulation, but if you use a vibrator, you can feel an orgasm in a short time.

Try it with your fingers for a while, and if you can’t have an external orgasm, try using a vibrator.

Even if you don’t try it with your fingers for a while, if you want to try a vibrator, you should definitely try it from the beginning.

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When touching the clitoris

Next, I will explain what to keep in mind when you touch the clitoris.

As I explained before, the clitoris is a very delicate and sensitive organ.

Therefore, undue stimulation can cause pain and inflammation.

To prevent this from happening, the following two points should be observed.

  • Stimulate gently at first.
  • Try to keep your hands clean.

Each in turn will be explained in detail!

Gentle stimulation at first

When touching the clitoris, it is recommended to do it gently, as if touching it with a feather, instead of stimulating it strongly from the beginning.

Especially when you are not used to clitoral masturbation, you tend to touch it too hard from the beginning.

If it leads to unexpected injury or pain, the tension will decrease.

Therefore, it is best to start with the foreskin and touch it slowly.

Keep your fingers clean

Keep your fingers clean when you touch the clitoris.

If you touch the clitoris while it is unclean, if there is a small scratch, bacteria can enter through it and cause irritation.

Inflammation of the delicate zone can be difficult and annoying to heal.

Make sure you clean your hands thoroughly before masturbating.

It is recommended that you take care of your hands before using sex toys such as vibrators and other sex toys to keep them clean as well.


The clitoris is the most sensitive organ in the female body.

If you develop it, you can challenge the next step, the Internal Orgasm.

If you haven’t developed a clitoris yet, why not try to develop one?

When you do, be sure to clean your hands, fingers, and toys, and be sure to masturbate.

Oh yes, make sure to keep your nails cut short, too.

Touching them with a stimulus that is not too strong will allow you to feel the orgasm without injury.