[For lesbian]How to do sex between girls; benefits and uses of sex toys and recommendations

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In sex between girls, there is no end to ejaculation, and because it is a woman’s body like yours, you are familiar with the parts of the body that feel pleasure.

This is why sex between girls can be more passionate and prolonged than sex between straight couples.

When having sex between girls, there are five basic patterns: kissing, caressing, cunnilingus, rubbing genitals together, and using sex toys.

In this article, I’m going to detail these steps to help you have more exciting sex with your beloved lesbian partner!

In addition, here are 15 sex toys that you can use for sex between girls.

  • You want to know the exact steps to have sex between girls.
  • You want to make sex with your partner more exciting, but what should you do?
  • You want to make your partner feel more comfortable.

If you are a woman who has any of these requests or concerns, this article should be helpful to you. Please stay with us until the end!

How do lesbians have sex?

If you want to have sex between girls, it is often done in the following order.

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Priya Singh

The order is only a guide, so please use it as a reference.

  1. Kissing
  2. Caressing
  3. Cunnilingus
  4. Rubbing the genitals together
  5. Using sex toys

In the case of sex between girls, there is a division of roles between the bottom side and the up side, with the up side basically playing the role of attacking the bottom side.

It’s also a great way to get to know each other better.

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Priya Singh

It’s a good idea to use a sex toy from the caressing stage if you’re an upside who suffers from a lack of stamina during caressing, or a bottom side who can’t develop their sex points easily.

If you want to know what sex toys are recommended for sex between girls right now, click here to find out!

Now let’s check out each method in detail!


Kissing is a very important part of sex between girls. Kissing is such an important part of sex between girls that it’s no exaggeration to say that it begins and ends with kissing.

There are many variations, from light kisses like a little bird pecking to more intense kisses.

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Priya Singh

Among them, I’d still start with a light pecking kiss!

Slowly approach the other person, and while listening to how they are feeling, kiss them repeatedly.

If the other person doesn’t show any resistance or is willing to be kissed, you can proceed to deep kissing.

Try alternating your tongues in and out of each other’s mouths, and enjoy the feeling of your tongues intertwining with each other.

Watch your partner carefully before moving on to deep kissing. Some lesbian women may be reluctant to kiss at first.


Use your fingers, lips and tongue to stimulate the bottom side of the body.

A woman’s sexual zones are not limited to her breasts, lips and genitals. You can use your fingers, lips, and tongue to stimulate the bottom side of your body.

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Stimulate these sex points by crawling your fingers over them, or by kissing them gently and noisily!

You can also try stimulating the areas that respond well in succession while watching your partner’s reaction.

By the way, caressing multiple areas at the same time is very effective. For example, licking the ears while stimulating the nipples, or caressing the neck while caressing the clitoris.

You can also use a sex toy to make these caresses easier to perform.

Classic Egg vibrators Black
Rs 700

I highly recommend vibrators in particular. They provide stimulation that no human can match, and you will see a different expression on your partner’s face as they experience the pleasure that vibrators bring.
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Some of you may have experienced this before, but caresses that are left to your own devices are not pleasurable. This is even more true when it’s between women. It is very easy to get excited, but you have to be considerate of your partner.


Use the tip of your tongue to caress your partner’s clitoris and vagina.

Occasional gentle sucking or biting on the clitoris is also effective. The more you do this, the more your partner will be excited.

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However, since cunnilingus is a very erotic position, many partners may be shy and uncomfortable.

If you don’t want your partner to be able to see you, cover yourself with a blanket so they can’t see you.

In addition to the clitoris and vagina, you can also caress the area around the anus and the base of the thighs to bring your partner to further orgasm.

Genitals together

Another method of sex between girls is to put their genitals together. This position is often seen in pornographic videos.

This is something that only lesbians can do. It is a position that straight couples cannot do.

As you both get excited, your vaginal secretions increase, and the sensation of mixing and uniting with each other’s is indescribably special.

You can use sex lubricant at this time to deepen the pleasure.

Nururun Lube – 30ml
Rs 199

In addition to vaginal secretions, you can use sex lubricant to further increase the degree of contact and stimulate play.

If you’re not sure how to get the best results, try using a sex lubricant. If you find that it doesn’t work very well, try not to focus too much on rubbing your genitals together.

Using sex toys

When you say “sex between girls”, many people may think of penis bands = strap-ons.

A strap-on is a type of sex toy that has a dildo attached to a harness, like this one.

The up side wears the strap-on, and the bottom side inserts it.

This is used when the Bottom side likes the orgasms they feel inside the vagina, or when the Up side wants to feel more conquered.

There is also a type of sex toy called a double-headed dildo that can be inserted by both lesbians at the same time.

If you want to accentuate your sex life, I highly recommend this type of sex toy, because you can enjoy inserting both the bottom side and the up side at the same time.

I’ll introduce these goods in more detail later.

Be aware that not all lesbian women like strap-ons (dildos). In fact, in some cases, they dislike them because they remind them of male genitalia.

Advantages of using sex toys for sex between lesbians

One of the benefits of using sex toys between girls is that it can bring your partner to further orgasm.

There is a limit to the amount of caressing you can do with your fingers and tongue.

However, by using a sex toy, the upside can caress the bottom side to their heart’s content without feeling tired.

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Priya Singh

Women are capable of having multiple orgasms in one sex session. Sex between girls is a way to take advantage of this characteristic.

In some cases, sex toys may seem inorganic and cause resistance, but if you want to have more exciting sex than you’re used to, I recommend you get rid of your preconceptions and give it a try.

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Priya Singh

Then, here are some sex toys for sex between girls that I recommend from the admin!

BEST15 Sextoys for lesbians in India

Let’s take a look at some of the sex toys available for sex between girls!

There are four main types of sex toys that can be used in sex between girls.

For each of these, I’ll show you the detailed goods features and recommendations!

Strap on

First up is the strap-on category!

Strap-ons are quite famous as sex toys used by lesbians, but there are not many sites that offer specific information on what products are popular.

In this article, I’ll show you why I recommend the strap-ons I’m going to introduce, along with the reasons why I recommend them, so you can make your decision based on your usual playing situation.

Lesbian Strap on vibrator dildo

Lesbian Strap on vibrator dildo
Rs 3482

The Lesbian Strap on vibrator dildo is a strap-on made just for lesbians.

While many strap-ons are designed to be used by men, it is rumored to fit women perfectly and be easy to use! (Of course, men can also use it since it is a hollow type.)

This is a cute product with a simple black belt and a pink controller.

You can pinch the controller to the belt part to fix it in place, so it’s easy to use when you’re pistoning her!

You may be able to lead your feline lady to a new orgasm!

For lesbian couples who are new to strap-ons, this is definitely the first toy you should try.


Rs 4860

The EROTIC PARTNER Lsize is large in size, but the body itself is soft and hollow, making it easy to insert smoothly into the vagina.

Even lesbian women who have never inserted a dildo before should be able to insert it smoothly.

The dildo’s appearance is not too realistic, so cats who are not comfortable with male genitalia may feel comfortable using it.

If you are not satisfied with the hardness of the hollow type, you can fill it with tissue to get a different feeling.

There are three snaps to secure it to the strap, so you can enjoy it even during intense play.

Doc Johnson Body Extensions


The Doc Johnson Body Extensions is a stylish strap-on with a uniform black housing.

It is a wireless type with a vibrator function and can be used for 50 minutes continuously.

This is a plug-type strap-on dildo, so only certain dildos can be attached to it, but it can be fixed firmly, so it is very stable and comfortable to use.

It comes with three different types of dildos, so you can use them according to your mood.

The price is a little high, but it is a toy that will give you a high level of satisfaction.

Pipedream Products Fetish Fantasy Series 8″

Pipedream Products Fetish Fantasy Series 8″

Pipedream Products Fetish Fantasy Series 8 is a strap-on dildo that replicates an attractive male penis.

It’s rechargeable, so you don’t have to buy batteries, making it an eco-friendly product.

The vibrations can be adjusted in multiple levels, so you can enjoy a variety of stimulation.

If you want to attack your partner intensely, this is the one for you.

New JOY BELT Black

New JOY BELT Black
New JOY BELT Black
Rs 3999

The New JOY BELT Black is a strap-on dildo with a vibrator function.

The strap-on part is a pants type, so it is easy to wear and stretches well.

This makes it very easy to put on and take off during play! I highly recommend using a strap-on that can be attached quickly because you don’t want to fumble around in the right places.

It also has a protrusion to stimulate the clitoris, so you can easily feel clitoral orgasm as well as insertion.

The stylish black appearance will also accentuate a woman’s beautiful skin.

Double Dildo

A double dildo is a dildo that has a glans on both ends for insertion.

A normal dildo is an elaborate model of a man’s penis, so it only has a glans on one side, but a double dildo has a glans on both sides, so it can be inserted from both directions.

When two women are connected, they can use the Double Dildo to insert both of them.

It is very exciting to see two women connecting with each other with the Double Dildo.

The fact that both of you can enjoy penetration is what makes lesbian sex so attractive.

As they move together, their movements interfere with each other and the Double Dildo moves in unpredictable ways.

If you are a fan of internal orgasm, Double Dildo is for you.


Rs 3464

SOUTOU KAKKA HONEY SHORT is a Double Dildo that is designed to be thin on one side and thick on the other.

It is made of a very flexible material, so it bends flexibly. Therefore, they do not interfere with each other’s movements during play.

It is a little smaller than the Double Dildo, but this makes it a toy that will bring you closer to your female partner and deepen your love. It is also recommended for beginners to dildos.

If you want more stimulation, you can choose the larger Double Dildo for a more stimulating experience.

Pink Double Dong

Pink Double Dong
Rs 3250

The Double Dildo has an attractive clear pink appearance, and the material itself is soft, smooth and slippery.

Many lesbian women are uncomfortable with the look of a man’s penis.

Therefore, it is a good rule for such women to choose a dildo that is not too graphic, like this one.

If your female partner does not like the look of realistic dildos, she should choose a less graphic looking dildo like the Pink Double Dong.

The price of the Pink Double Dong is not too expensive and it is easy to purchase.

California Exotics Veined Double Dong, Ivory Duo, 18″

California Exotics Veined Double Dong, Ivory Duo, 18″

This is a straight type Double Dildo.

It is not suitable for beginners because of its large diameter, but women who have used it a few times will have no trouble inserting it.

The color of the dildo is sexy, similar to that of a real penis, and will make sex with your partner very exciting.


Vibrators are one of the most popular and popular sex toys for lesbians.

There is no clear goal for sex between lesbians.

If it’s between straight couples, it’s over when the man has an orgasm and ejaculates.

However, when two women have orgasms over and over again, there is no end in sight.

Therefore, vibrators are very suitable for sex between lesbians, where the caressing time is longer than for straight sex between a man and a woman.

Since there is no goal of insertion, how far you can satisfy the other woman depends on the time and technique of caressing.

In lesbian sex, which takes much longer than sex between straight couples, a vibrator makes it easier for you to charge your partner more intensely and satisfy her.

There are many different types of vibrators. Therefore, it is best to choose one based on what kind of blame your partner likes to receive.

Also, as a woman, you may have long nails or nail art on your fingers.

These fingers may hurt your partner if they are inserted into the vagina.

Therefore, it is safe to use a vibrator that attaches to the finger and stimulate it from the outside.

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Fing Vibe

Fing Vibe
Rs 1625

Fing Vibe is a small vibrator that can be attached to your finger.

The body is small, so it’s easy to carry around, and it’s light, so you won’t get too tired even if you’re wearing it for a long time and caressing it.

The price is also relatively affordable at Rs1625, so even sex toy beginners can start using it without worry.

I mentioned earlier that sex between lesbians involves very long caresses. I’m sure there are many women who think, “I get it!

For a more mutually satisfying sex experience, it is a good idea to use a vibrator like the Fing Vibe as needed to increase the satisfaction.

Classic Egg vibrators Black

Classic Egg vibrators Black
Rs 700

Classic Egg vibrators Black is a very simple looking egg-shaped vibrator.

It is a very simple looking egg shaped vibrator, so even if you are not a fan of cute feminine products, Classic Egg vibrators Black are easy to get into! The price is Rs700.

The price is Rs700, which is the cheapest among the sex toys introduced here, so if you want to try out a cheap sex toy or want to have a spare vibrator, you may want to buy one first.

There are so many uses for this type of vibrator that it’s a good idea to have one.

Remote Pleasant egg

Remote Pleasant egg
Rs 2500

The Remote Pleasant egg is an egg-shaped vibrator that can be controlled from a short distance away.

Most egg-shaped vibrators have tangled cords in the controller area, which can make it difficult to concentrate on caressing.

But with the Remote Pleasant Egg, you don’t have to worry! It can be used for any kind of play.

With its superior wireless performance, you can play with shame outdoors.

You can also attach it to your female partner at home or in a hotel to enjoy more stimulating caresses.

This is a very attractive product that offers more ways to have fun than the price.

Spiral Rabbit Vibe

Spiral Rabbit Vibe
Rs 2000

The Spiral Rabbit Vibe is a dildo-type vibrator that features spiral-shaped fins with clitoral stimulation protrusions.

This one is recommended not only for lesbians, but for women in general.

The folds engraved all over this vibrator will lead you to orgasm often.

The body itself is soft and bends well, so you will hardly feel any pain when inserting it, despite its size.

Therefore, even inexperienced lesbian women who have never inserted a dildo into their vagina can use it comfortably.


Rs 2899

The Jugar SALTER is a wireless egg vibrator of the same type as the Remote Pleasant egg.

The body is made of a softer material than Remote Pleasant egg, so if you like a smooth touch, this one is for you.

The vibrating sound of the vibrator is also quite quiet, making it a very suitable toy for outdoor shame play.

The wireless performance is excellent, as is the Remote Pleasant egg, so you can control it from up to 20 meters away, depending on the presence or absence of obstacles.

Magic wand vibrator

One of the most popular sex toys is the Electric Masserger.

The Electric Masserger is not only used for adult purposes, but is also used as a massage machine to relieve stiffness in the shoulders and back, so it has stronger vibrations than a regular vibrator.

Therefore, it is highly recommended for those who want an even stronger stimulation than a vibrator.

The Electric Massager itself is very easy to find, as it is sold at electronics stores, and it is easy to disguise the fact that it is a massage machine when your family or roommates find out about it.

Even if your partner is not a fan of sex toys, he or she may find it easier to accept the relatively popular Electric Masserger.

Electric Masserger is divided into wired and wireless types, with the wired type being powered directly from the outlet.

In contrast, the wireless type is a cordless type of electric massager that can be used by charging or inserting batteries.

The wireless type tends to be less stimulating than the wired type, but it is attractive because it can be used flexibly in any situation.

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Fairy mini vibrator

Fairy mini vibrator
Fairy mini vibrator
Rs 4565

Fairy mini vibrator is one of the most famous products in the Electric Massager market.

Originally, the Electric Masserger was sold as a home massage machine, but since the impression of sex toys became stronger, it has been developed more and more as a sex toy.

The Fairy mini vibrator is a synonym for the Electric Masserger as a sex toy.

While retaining the strength of the Electric Masserger, the head of the vibrator is designed for caressing like a sex toy, so you can angle the head and attachments (sold separately) to enjoy different ways of using it.

If you’re having trouble choosing an electric massager, we recommend this one first.

Minimamini white

Minimamini white
Minimamini white
Rs 1514

Minimamini white is a small type of Electric Masserger that is made at a very low price.

If you want to try an Electric Masserger but are concerned about the price, or if you want something that is more stimulating than a vibrator but not as strong as a regular Electric Masserger…this is the answer to your selfish needs.

It is very slim and portable, so you can use it when you travel.

One of its charms is that it runs on a single AA battery.

If you are looking for an easy way to introduce yourself the Electric Massager, this is the one for you.

How to choose a sex toy for lesbians

When choosing a sex toy for lesbians, try to keep the following points in mind

  1.  Match each other’s tastes
  2.  Choose the right size

I will explain each in turn.

First of all, when choosing a sex toy, the other person’s preference is more important than your own, because if you impose your own preferences on the other person, she will not feel truly comfortable.

This is because if you force your own preference on the other person, she will not be able to feel truly comfortable.

Therefore, it is best to choose a sex toy that is closer to your partner’s preference.

Secondly, you should choose a sex toy that is suitable for you and your partner.

Especially with dildos and dildo-type vibrators, but also with harness dildos, if the harness part is not the right size, the belt will shift every time you move and the skin will be damaged.

If you force yourself to wear pumps that you are not used to, you will get sore feet.

It’s the same thing.

So make sure that the sex toys you wear are properly sized and choose the ones that fit you and your partner.

Sex that feels good comes from caring.

This kind of care is important for both you and your partner to feel good from the bottom of your heart.

Things to be careful

There are three things to keep in mind when using sex toys that are recommended for lesbians.

All of them are essential for both your partner and yourself to feel truly pleasurable.

Try to remind yourself before you use a sex toy.

  1.  If your partner is not comfortable with a sex toy, don’t force it on her.
  2.  Stop immediately if you feel pain
  3.  Sex toys should always be clean.

First of all, partners should not be forced to recommend sex toys if they are uncomfortable with them.

In recent years, some people have felt somewhat uncomfortable with sex toys due to the marketing influence of sex toys and the unfavorable impression of sex toys walking alone.

Forcing a person who feels that way to use a sex toy will not make them feel good about it, but will make them feel more averse to it.

For this reason, you should get your partner’s consent before introducing a sex toy.

Some sex toys are also inserted into the vagina. Attempting to use a sex toy that is larger than the inner diameter of the vagina may result in injury in some cases. It’s smoother if you gradually change from a smaller size to a larger one. Also, use a generous amount of lotion to avoid feeling pain.

Lastly, always keep your sex toys clean.

Sex toys that come in contact with the mucous membranes of your body are prone to bacterial growth, so make sure to wash and dry them after you’re done using them.

If it can’t be washed, simply wiping it off with a sanitizing wet wipe containing alcohol can make a difference.

When you’re done using it, it’s a good idea to take care of it in some way.

Sex toy summary for lesbians

As is true for both straight and gay sex, sex is the ultimate communinekoion.

Trying to understand and satisfy each other’s bodies on a deeper level is very noble.

Exploring sexual pleasure leads to rut prevention and a stronger emotional bond.

Men are biologically structured to have loveless sex, but this is not the case for women.

This is only possible when you are in love with your partner and want to “touch” them more and “be touched” more.

When you use a sex toy, you should be respectful and considerate to your partner, as this will give you a deeper sense of pleasure.

If you’ve never used a sex toy for sex between lesbians, I recommend giving it a try.

It will be a great stimulus for both you and your partner.

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