“I don’t know if she has an orgasm during sex…”
“She can’t have an orgasm during sex and I want to help her feel it somehow.”
“I want to know what kind of position a woman can have an orgasm in.”
If you have read the title and opened this article, you probably have thoughts like these, right?
In this article, we’ll dig deeper into the reasons why a woman can’t have an orgasm during sex, and we’ll introduce 8 positions you can try to have sex with her to make her orgasm more effectively.
・You want to make sex with her more exciting.
・You want her to be able to feel orgasms.
・You want to know how women can feel orgasms.
If you have any of these requests, please stay with us until the end of this article.
Table of Contents
Can’t she have an orgasm during sex?
First, let’s find out why she can’t have an orgasm during sex.
The premise is that a woman is unlikely to feel an orgasm unless she develops her sexual organs.
Therefore, many men may have a problem with her not being able to feel orgasms during sex (or not knowing whether she feels them or not).
There are three main reasons for her inability to have an orgasm during sex:
- The woman herself has not developed her sexual organs.
- Not enough time to spend on sex.
- Position may be the cause.
Let’s dig deeper into each one in turn.
Are you developing your erogenous zones?
As I mentioned before, women cannot feel orgasm without developing their sexual zones, but if they do not develop their sexual zones through masturbation or sex, they cannot feel orgasm during sex with you, either.
Therefore, in order to be able to feel it in sex, you need to develop your sexual organs.
It’s difficult to determine whether she has already developed her sexual zones or just can’t have an orgasm during sex, but if you are concerned, you may want to ask her directly.
And if you haven’t developed your sexual organs, you need to start by developing them.
If you are interested in learning more about female sexual zones, you may also want to read this article.
Maybe you are not spending enough time for sex
When there is not enough time for sex itself, a woman cannot feel an orgasm, either.
It is said that it takes around 20 minutes for a woman to feel an orgasm, even if she is able to develop her sexual organs.
Therefore, if you don’t have enough time for sex (especially for caressing), it’s difficult to feel orgasm.
Also, many people think that female orgasm = orgasm during penetration.
In order for a woman to have an orgasm during penetration (also known as a internal orgasm), her body must be sufficiently sensitive.
Therefore, in order to make her have an orgasm during sex penetration, you should first make her come externally during the caressing phase, and then it will be smooth.
The following is a list of caressing techniques to make her happy during sex.
Position may be the reason
One of the reasons she can’t have an orgasm during sex can be due to her position.
Just as men have unique penises (size, angle of erection, thickness, etc.), women’s vaginas are unique.
Therefore, no matter what shape a man’s penis is in, it is difficult to have an orgasm if it is difficult to hit the female vagina’s sexual organs in certain positions.
If you tend to be in the same position all the time, and if she is not experiencing an orgasm, it is recommended that you actively try different positions.
In the next section, we will discuss eight positions that can bring her to orgasm.
8 positions to bring her to orgasm
So let’s get started with the 8 positions that will bring her to orgasm!
Some of them may be the positions you have always done, but I will introduce you to some of the things you can do to have an orgasm in those positions as well.
I hope you’ll try them out with a fresh mind.
Missionary position
Sex Positions as per your mood
Pic 1: Missionary: because you are horny and wanna see his lovely face too 😍😍
Pic 2: reverse Cow girl: Because you are horny at the same time angry with him so don’t wanna see his face 🤣🤣🤣😉😉😉 pic.twitter.com/IC4CFRRIJ8
— Jugnissssm😉 (@Jugni_Kehndi_E) December 18, 2020
First up is the basic normal position!
The missionary position is where the man lies on top of the woman, and it is a position that can easily become male-dominated.
The missionary position is popular among women as a very loving position because it allows them to see each other’s facial expressions and to kiss and cuddle easily.
It is also one of the most orgasmic positions among the various positions.
It is easy for the man to change the angle of his penis during insertion, so if you know the sexual zones in her vagina, you can consciously stimulate them.
Another good point is that the position does not require the woman to work too hard, so it is easy for her to relax. A relaxed state of mind is essential for orgasms.
It is also good that it is easy to caress other points during insertion.
It is also recommended to caress your breasts, neck, and abdomen during insertion.
Cowgirl position
thinking……………. and you know what? cowgirl is the best sex position.
— somebody’s son (@blkcollegeteen) November 25, 2020
The cowgirl position is also a good choice for women to have an orgasm.
The advantage of the cowgirl position is that it is very easy for a woman to lead a man to the point where she feels comfortable.
However, if a woman doesn’t know her sexual zones well, it can be difficult for her to orgasm in cowgirl position.
In this case, it is necessary for the man to guide her to the point where she is most likely to feel orgasm.
It is not easy for a man to get tired, so it is easy for him to lead a woman to orgasm.
Viennese oyster position
The Viennese oyster position is the type of missionary position, where the woman keeps her legs extended and raises them up to the man’s shoulders.
This position is very easy to stimulate the portio, the sexual zone in the woman’s vagina, and is a good place to have an orgasm.
The portio is the part of the uterus that lies at the back of a woman’s vagina, also known as the vagina.
It is the passage of the baby during a woman’s birth and is usually tightly closed off.
This portio can also be a sexual area for orgasm during sex, but you must have prior portio development in order to have a portio orgasm.
However, it may also be possible to develop during sex in the Viennese oyster position.
To bring a woman to orgasm in the Viennese oyster position, it is recommended that the penis be pressed against the portio rather than thrusted hard, or rocking in small increments while pressed against it.
This is an area that can easily feel painful when stimulated hard, so you may want to start out by just gently touching it with your penis.
Cowboy Style
Cowboy style is the position where a man inserts himself on top of a woman lying on her back, straddling her like a cowboy.
The woman’s legs are not fully open, but naturally closed, which increases the adhesiveness of the penetration and makes it easier to feel pleasure.
If a woman is inclined to be M-minded, she should try this position with her wrists lightly bound.
The deprivation of freedom of action further increases a woman’s sensitivity to this position.
Sitting position (lotus)
The seated position is a position where the man is sitting and the woman rides on top of him.
Both men and women are less likely to get tired, and the seated position is suitable for prolonged play, making it the best position for women to have an orgasm.
It can be inserted deeper into the vagina than in the normal position, which makes it easier to stimulate the portio.
In addition, the stimulation to the penis is relatively weaker than in other positions, so it is often the case that men who have premature ejaculation can enjoy the sitting position for a long time.
I mentioned earlier that a woman needs at least 20 minutes of stimulation in order to have an orgasm, and this is a position that can easily achieve that.
It’s perfect for women who want to feel skin-to-skin contact because you can insert yourself in a hug with a man.
Reverse cow girl
In reverse cowgirl position, a woman straddles a man with her back to his face, as opposed to the usual cowgirl position where the men and women face each other.
In this position, the man does not see her face, so it is safe to say that it is easier for a woman to have an orgasm because she does not have to worry about her face being distorted by her orgasm during sex.
One of the reasons why it is difficult for women to feel orgasm during sex is because they make a strange face when they have an orgasm, which is one of the reasons why they do not want to show the man they love as much as possible a strange appearance.
Therefore, this position is perfect because it allows you to feel the orgasm without hesitation.
And since it is a cowgirl position, it is easy for a woman to move as she pleases and stimulate the points she feels good about.
Doggy Style (back)
Favourite sex position
😁😁😁😜
— Adult content creator and all round nice chap. (@MasterJakeJohns) December 19, 2020
Doggy Style is a position in which a man penetrates a woman on all fours from behind while she is on her knees.
Doggy style is one of the most popular positions among men, as it satisfies the desire for control and is easy to move around and visually stimulate, but it is also popular among women.
The reason for this is that, just like the back cowgirl, you don’t have to worry about being seen, so you can feel it without hesitation.
Also, the penis can be inserted deep into the body, which increases the stimulation and makes it easier to have an orgasm.
Some women say they feel lonely because they can’t see your face, so you have to try to prevent them from feeling lonely by kissing them from time to time (which is a bit difficult).
Standing Doggy
As the name suggests, the standing doggy is a position in which a woman inserts her with his penis from behind while standing.
This can be difficult to do if there is a height difference between men and women, but the standing doggy is actually a good position for women to have an orgasm.
It is easier for women to feel orgasm if they put more pressure on the muscles of the lower body, but in standing doggy, you have to put more pressure on the muscles of the legs because you are inserting yourself in a standing position.
Therefore, many women who cannot usually feel orgasm in other positions can feel it in standing doggy.
If there is a difference in height between a man and a woman and it is difficult to insert the orgasm, if the woman stands on a slightly uneven surface, the insertion should be smooth.
Tips for smooth repositioning
Trying different positions during sex is all very well and good, but if the process doesn’t go smoothly, it can get somewhat cold.
If you’re trying to move from normal to back, and you turn the woman over and try to insert yourself, you may find it difficult to do so because your penis is deflated in the meantime.
This is due to the pause created when changing positions.
Therefore, it is better to try to eliminate this pause as much as possible in order to achieve a smooth repositioning.
Specifically, the following points should be noted for smooth repositioning
- When changing positions, move to a similar position.
- Avoid uncomfortable positions if you are not used to them.
A similar position is one that can be transitioned to while still inserted.
For example, if you are starting in normal position, the transition will be smoother if the woman raises her upper body and sits on top of the man.
If you want to move from seated to sitting, the man can also move his upper body down and change to cowgirl.
It’s also best to avoid uncomfortable positions if you’re not used to them.
An inquisitive and ambitious couple may be willing to try new positions.
However, too much pressure can cause the body to become overwhelmed and tired, and it can also cause the couple to cool off if it doesn’t work.
Cautions when you want to try new positions
Although the content of this article overlaps a little with the above, when it comes time to try a new position, it is recommended that you do not assume a position that requires straining of the joints and positions.
When it comes time to try a new position, it is recommended not to try a position that requires straining of the joints or positions.
Dislocated joints and sore backs during sex are no substitute for cooling off.
Sex is the only way to have an orgasm because you are relaxed and comfortable with each other.
Therefore, when trying a new position, it’s good to check if you are putting a lot of stress on your joints and hips by moving your body a little bit without moving it too much.
And if you feel a little bit overwhelmed, we recommend that you stop and try a different position.
Summary
What did you think?
In this article, we have introduced eight positions that can bring a woman to orgasm.
Trying out various positions will not only bring a woman to orgasm, but will also help you to get rid of the rut of sex.
If you pay attention to not only positions but also caresses, you will get more pleasure from your woman.
Also, when changing positions or trying new positions, be sure to do so in a position that is comfortable for your body.
It would not be funny if you end up in the hospital for trying an acrobatic position during sex.
Be willing to try new positions and techniques to make her fall in love with you.
