What is a sex toy? An in-depth look at the different types of sex toys

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Have you ever heard of sex toys?They are what we call adult toys.

If you want to use a sex toy, but it’s your first time, it’s hard to know what to choose and how to use it.

If you have an acquaintance or friend who you can feel comfortable asking about sex toys, that’s not a problem, but it’s probably a hard thing to ask most of the time.

That’s why we’ve covered the different types of sex toys, from how to choose them to what to expect when using them to a thorough explanation of what makes a sex toy so appealing.

“If you’re interested in sex toys and want to make sex with your partner more exciting, please take a look at this article.

What is a sex toy?

Sex toys, as the name implies, are toys used during sex and masturbation. It is a generic term for vibrations, rotors, dildos, handcuffs and condoms.

They are used to make regular sex more exciting or to make masturbation feel more comfortable.

If you’ve been with your partner for a long time and you’re having trouble getting into a sex rut, or you’re frustrated because you’re not finding sex with your partner pleasurable, this can be a solution to your problems and frustrations.

The ability to satisfy your desires with movement, texture, and size in a way that a normal human being cannot, can make sex more satisfying and, as a result, improve your relationship with your partner.

It is also said to help improve sexual dysfunction (inability to get an erection or ejaculate) and difficulty in feeling during sex (insensitivity), which is gaining more attention than in the past.

In recent years, the demand for sex toys has increased as more and more people use online shopping due to the widespread use of smartphones and the Internet. Even those who are concerned about the appearance of sex toys… (it’s hard to buy them) can now easily obtain them by using mail order.

In the case of online shopping, most of the stores have taken steps to ensure that the contents of the goods delivered to you will not be exposed, so you can buy them without your family finding out.

Not so long ago, you had to go to the store where the adult goods were sold to buy them, which was too hard to do.

Also, many people have the image that sex toys are somehow embarrassing to own.

But these days, some of them are so stylish and cute that you wouldn’t even think they were sex toys at first glance.

More and more people are using sex toys on trips and outdoors because they are not too bulky and are suitable for carrying around.

Kinds of sex toys

There are many different types of sex toys.

There are various kinds of sex toys, from light goods for beginners that can be easily handled, to heavy ones that may involve physical pain until you get used to them.

Condoms are one of the sex toys.

Sex toys should not be selected directly from a popular ranking, but should be changed according to the purpose, the taste, and the partner’s preference, so that the stimulation is better and more effective.

Next, let’s take a look at the various types of sex toys.

Anal Toys

An anal toy is a toy that you put into the anal.

There are many types of anal toys, including stick toys, bead-shaped toys, plug-shaped toys, and enemas.

There are various ways to enjoy these toys, such as expanding the size of your anal area and inserting a larger one, using plug-type toys to enjoy shame play, and using an enema to enjoy the pleasure of being relieved of abdominal pain all at once.

A toy in the anal! You may be surprised to hear that, but those who have experienced anal say that it is quite exciting and good.

It is said that there are many people who can’t get out of anal after experiencing an unknown pleasure.

Men in particular have an organ called the prostate gland (which women don’t have), and stimulating the prostate gland makes it easier for them to get pleasure from it.

In women, it hits an organ called the portio, which is next to the rectal wall, and can provide a different kind of pleasure than normal sex.


A BDSM toy is the item you use to enjoy BDSM play.

When you hear the word BDSM, many people have an image of a woman dressed as a queen, holding a whip and a candle and kicking a man in the leg.

Of course there are such items, but the most popular ones are eye masks and ear plugs for blindfolds, handcuffs, restraint ropes, monkey gags (items that prevent you from speaking), and feathers to tickle you, which prevent you from moving and take away your body’s freedom rather than direct insertion.

This type of light BDSM is called soft BDSM.

In fact, BDSM ranges from what is called soft BDSM to what is called hard BDSM, and for soft BDSM, the hurdles are lower, making it easier for beginners to introduce the play.

Soft BDSM is easier for beginners to get into because it’s less strenuous.

If you are not satisfied with your current sex life with your partner, you might want to start with soft BDSM!

Cock Ring

A cock ring is a sex toy that is worn on a man’s penis and is used to bind the penis with a ring of rubber to inhibit blood flow and maintain an erection.

It is sometimes used as an accessory to be worn on the penis and can be made of metal or plastic as well as rubber.

Some cock rings have parts or vibrations attached to them that stimulate the female genitalia, so they can kill two birds with one stone to give a woman pleasure while maintaining an erection.

Cock rings are also sometimes used to treat erectile dysfunction.

It is used to remedy erectile dysfunction, where the penis does not get hard when you get an erection or does not last long when you try to insert it.

If a man’s confidence in his ability to get an erection after inserting the penis is broken, he may not be able to get an erection for a long time.

In such cases, a cock ring can be used to maintain an erection, which can satisfy a woman and potentially lead to satisfying sex.

Cock rings come in a variety of price ranges: some are inexpensive at a few hundred yen, while others are more expensive at over five thousand yen.

Some of them may not fit your penis, so it is essential to check the size of the cock ring before you buy it.

It’s a good idea to know the size of your partner’s and your own penis when it’s erect.


One of the most familiar sex toys is the condom.

Condoms are mainly used for contraceptive purposes, but there are actually some condoms that have additional benefits other than contraception to increase the pleasure of sex.

If you’re not sure about the size of your penis, there are condoms that can cover the size of your penis, and there are also condoms that come with a lotion that acts as a lubricant.

It is very common for a woman to feel pain during penetration, but it is difficult to concentrate during sex if one of you is in pain.

However, there are times when it is difficult to get wet due to physical conditions or the time of year.

In that case, it may be a good idea to use a condom with a lotion.

There are condoms that are uneven and give more pleasure to the woman when they are inserted.

There are some condoms that contain menthol-based ingredients that make you feel drafty, and others that make you feel heat when you put them on or insert them.

When choosing a condom, it’s fun to listen to your partner’s preferences while you choose a condom.


A dildo is a model toy made to mimic a male penis. It is sometimes called a dildo, which means the same thing.

It can be used on a partner during sex or used for masturbation to get pleasure from it.

It is sometimes used synonymous with vibration, but it is a different thing because the correct term for it is vibration that has a vibratory function.

A model of a penis that does not vibrate is a dildo.It is mainly inserted into a woman, but some dildos can also be used for male anal.

Some of them have suction cups that can be attached to the floor or wall, so you can enjoy a more realistic masturbation experience without using your hands.

For fun, there are dildos made in the shape of your partner’s penis.

This one is also popular as a gift, and if you’ve been together for a long time and are having trouble finding a gift for your partner, you might want to choose one!

male masturbator

One of the most popular sex toys is the male masturbator .

Male masturbators are used by men for masturbation, and are popular because they provide stronger stimulation and more pleasurable sensations than manual masturbation.

There are many types of male masturbators, including ones that resemble female genitalia, cylindrical masturbators, and dolls with a male masturbator attached to them, so you can enjoy the sensation of penetrating a real woman.

The cheapest ones cost less than 1,000 yen and are sold in pharmacies around town. Some of the more expensive ones cost more than 10,000 yen, and they are also popular as gifts.

Many of them are made of silicon, and their softness is something you can’t achieve with your own hands. It’s no wonder why they are so popular.

Some are disposable, some are washable and can be used over and over again, so it’s fun to buy a few and use them differently depending on your mood.

Magic Wand Vibrators

Magic Wand Vibrators are hand-held electric massagers, also known as handy massagers, and are usually available at electronics stores.

Originally, it was made for relieving stiff shoulders and so on, so the hurdle to buy it in a real store is quite low.

It is often installed in the love hotel and is often put in the hotel, and there may be many people who have used it in some form or other, leaving the use for a while.

Such Magic Wand Vibrators are recommended for sex toy beginners because it is easy to get pleasure when used during masturbation.

The vibrations are much bigger and stronger than rotors and vibrators, so you can get a lot of pleasure just by hitting the clitoris.

For those women who have never orgasm during sex with their man, Magic Wand Vibrators are a great way to get a feel for what it’s like to cum.

The Magic Wand Vibrators look and feel like an electric massage machine, so you won’t feel awkward if your roommate finds out you’re having sex with him or her.

If you’re tired of having sex with your partner and you’re thinking about using a sex toy, why not start with the easy Magic Wand Vibrators?

Sex Lubricant

Sex Lubricant is a substitute for lubricating fluid during sex and is used not only during sex penetration, but also when men use a male masturbator and during anal sex.

There are many different types of products that are also available, such as those with a sweet scent, warm with a warming effect, and those that are flavored and can be used for oral sex.

Others are sold in small portions for clean use.

It is recommended to use up Sex Lubricant as soon as possible to avoid the growth of germs once opened, but there are times when you may not be able to use it all up at the right time.

In such cases, you may want to choose a small portion of the product depending on the frequency of use.

Sex Lubricant is fairly easy to get your hands on in a sex toy, so you may want to choose Sex Lubricant with your partner along with a condom for stimulation.

You can find them at the town’s pharmacy or, in some places, at convenience stores.


A vibrator is a sex toy that vibrates with a rotor to provide stimulation and is often simply called a vibrator.

Some vibrate as well as rotate, and there are many variations of sex toys.
It is a well recognized and quite popular sex toy.

Its usage is similar to Magic Wand Vibrators, but it’s more compact and portable than Magic Wand Vibrators, and many of them look as cute as lipstick or macaroons, so they’re popular with women.

At one point, a famous social media influencer said, “This is good! and the recommended vibrations have become a hot topic of conversation.

Unlike before, sex toys are becoming that much more popular than they used to be.

You can use them yourself, but vibrators are also recommended for men who can’t easily satisfy their women.

Because they are powered by electricity, they are far less tiring than moving your hands on your own.

This allows you to stimulate for longer than usual, which makes it easier for women to be satisfied.

Vibrations are mainly used on the female side of the body, but they can also be used on the male side of the body. In both cases, it is recommended to wear a condom.

fleshlight girl

A fleshlight girl, also known as a Dutch wife, is a doll with the appearance of a woman that allows men to experience sex.

There are dolls that look like a woman, but they have no face and only have their breasts and lower torso cut out, and some dolls are so realistic that they can actually be mistaken for real women.

Some of the more expensive dolls can cost over 1 million yen, and the quality of the doll is easily influenced by the price.

The higher the price, the higher the quality of the doll will be, the closer it will be to the real woman, and the cheaper the doll will be, the less elaborate it will be. Something’s wrong!”

There are also some that are. You can’t go wrong if you choose a balance of price and preference.

There are also shops that can make custom-made fleshlight girls, so you can make a girl that you like.

You may want to start off with inexpensive fleshlight girls and once you get used to it, you may want to try custom-made girls.

How to choose a sex toy

Now that we’ve covered the different types of sex toys, here’s how to choose the next one.

Especially if you’re trying a sex toy for the first time, keep the following three things in mind.

  •  Is the size right for you (the other person)?
  • Is the environment capable of producing sound without problems?
  • Price Range.

First of all, choosing the right size is quite important.

Most sex toys are used against or inserted into the genitals, but the genitals are a very delicate organ for both men and women.

For this reason, using an ill-fitting sex toy can cause damage.

Secondly, the environment should be able to produce sound without problems.

Some sex toys not only wear, but also rotate and vibrate. It’s easier to get pleasure from something that moves than something that doesn’t, but when it moves, it means that the internal rotors and other sounds are produced.

If you live in a house with thin walls or if you have roommates, it can be difficult to concentrate because of the noise, so it’s best to choose one that doesn’t make any noise or one with a low noise level.

Finally, there is the price range.

There is a wide range of price points for sex toys, from a few hundred dollars at the cheapest to tens of thousands or even hundreds of thousands at the highest.

It’s good to examine how much money you can afford to spend and then choose the one you want to buy.

The appeal of sex toys

The attraction of using sex toys is that they provide stimulation that cannot be produced by humans.

A human being cannot vibrate tens of thousands of times a minute, and there is a limit to the shape of a sex toy.

But with sex toys, you can get a different kind of pleasure from normal sex because you can make movements that cannot be made by humans.

Many people are hesitant to use a sex toy, but once they use it, they are addicted to it.

Sex toys can also be a good stimulus for couples who have been in a sex rut for a long time and are in a sex rut.

Aside from the new pleasure aspect, the fun of choosing goods together is also refreshing.

It’s also a great way to use them well and improve your relationship with your partner.

Of course, there’s nothing wrong with using a sex toy alone.

When a woman gets rid of her sex drive in moderation, the secretion of the female hormone “estrogen” increases, which makes her hair and skin more beautiful and shiny, and increases the size of her breasts, among other positive effects.

It’s often said that falling in love makes you beautiful, and the same principle applies here.

Secstoy’s Notes

When using a sex toy, keep the following three things in mind.

  •  Keep it clean.
  • Beware of electric shock
  •  Fever in use

As we mentioned earlier, many sex toys are used on the delicate zone.

Therefore, it is most important to keep the sex toy itself clean.

It is very important to keep the sex toy itself clean, as the slightest scratch from friction can allow bacteria to enter and breed.

It is better to wear a condom when using the sex toy.

Also, since many sex toys use a power source, those that aren’t waterproof can cause waxing and failure due to wetness.

Some can even heat up during continuous use. If this happens, stop running the sex toy and refrain from using it.

You will enjoy sex more if you keep it safe and use it correctly.

Sex toys summary

We’ve introduced you to the different types of sex toys, their appeal and what to look out for.

Sex toys are not only pleasurable, but they can also improve your relationship with your partner and give you the possibility of discovering your new tastes and preferences.

Sex toys have been somewhat of a taboo subject, but nowadays there are more and more stores and online shops that sell them quite openly.

It’s really easier to buy a variety of goods than before, so be sure to look around and find a sex toy that suits you.